25/03/2017, in Ha Dong district, Ha Noi was launched a “Prevent skill of Pedophilia and Sexual Abused for children”. Recently, a series of child sexual abused case was a hot and pressing issue in the whole country. Realizing that affair, the Hai Phat Group launched a program for resident who live in every Hai Phat building in order to bring knowledge and raise the awareness to protect their children. Over 200 “Prevents Pedophilia and Abuse for children” books was handed free at the meeting.
At the meeting, Speaker focus on “What is pedophilia? Pedophilia was disguised in which situation? Who could be a victim? Who could be a perpetrator? Which they would do in order to seduce kids? Signs to raise awareness, warned parents when kid at risk of sexual abuse? How to deal with sexual abuse? How to prevent pedophilia? Whom do kids contact when need? Are there some guidelines for children?..
Pedophilia create a long and serious consequent on child and their family, negative affecting to community. This is an violent act which is strictly prohibit by government law. Children who are the victim of pedophilia not only have physical harm but are also subject to many mental disorders when adults, including psychological trauma, depression, eating disorders, personality disorders, Encountered problems with emotional relationships … or even suicide. Dispite of being worry and scare when it happen, we must have enough knowledge and skill to prevent for our own and our children.
In every apartment building, mostly residents are young family so there are many children. Therefore, the work of raising awareness to the people about coping skills and victim protection of children from sexual abuse is necessary and urgent. A sharing session of promoting the protection of children from sexual assault was organized with a view to contributing to changing societal perceptions and minimizing the negative effects of sexual abuse.
PhD. Pham Manh Ha said: “Recently, the problem of sexual abuse has been worsening and public opinion is worrying, especially sexual abuse has occurred to even relatives in the family. Trusted people, such as neighbors, distant relatives or friends of parents … and sexual predators always come into contact with children by being very friendly with their children. Sexual abuse can happen to any person. ”
PhD. Pham Manh Ha also asked specific questions, interviewed the children living in the apartment. C.A – Living in CT1 – The Pride was asked: “I was taught to protect the enclosed.” According to TS. Pham Manh Ha: “We usually use the word” space “but not really standard, called” space. It is a sensitive part when we go to beach with swim suits.
Currently, apartment buildings, urban areas, the number of young households occupy the majority. This is also a place where residents are crowded, which means that young children can be sexually abused in many places, such as elevators, play areas, quiet areas, parks or even in stairs. It is therefore important for parents to understand their child’s prevention as well as to guide their children to prevent sexual abuse.
Take for example these, PhD. Manh Ha shared, “In the case of young children preparing to take the elevator, there is a man unknown to the young child should let the man go first. If you are in the elevator alone, but a man walks in and the man keeps staring at the panty space, the child must say straight: “I do not like that look,” and the child immediately needs to press the button. Open the next floor to go out or if you see a worse situation, you can press the yellow button (the rescue button) to warn the bad guys that there are many safeguards around the building. “